In Appalachian and Southern speech, a "hissy fit" means a sudden temper tantrum or outburst - often over something small. It’s a playful way to describe fussing or losing your cool.
You can still hear 'hissy fit' in conversation these days, but I've never used it. Never liked the word 'hissy'. Don't even like typing it.
Hillbilly Dude Says...
You can still hear 'hissy fit' in conversation these days, but I've never used it. Never liked the word 'hissy'. Don't even like typing it.
Pronunciation
[HISS-ee fit]
Meaning & Usage
- Temper tantrum / angry outburst (noun phrase)
At the kitchen table
Mae:
She didn’t get her way.
Earl:
And she throwed a hissy fit big as Dallas.
variations: temper tantrum, fit of anger, conniption, fuss, meltdown
★ "Hissy fit" is usually more funny than harsh. Folks use it to poke fun at someone getting overly worked up, not to describe real danger or rage. ★
Origin and Etymology
First recorded in the early 1900s, "hissy fit" combines "hissy" (acting like a hissing cat or snake) with "fit" (an outburst). It took root in Southern and Appalachian English and spread into broader American slang.
Usage Notes
Still common today in the South and Appalachia, often used by parents and grandparents. While people outside the region may know it, it’s strongest in rural and Southern storytelling.
Say It Like a Southerner
Say it sharp: "HISS-ee fit." The "hissy" draws out like a snake’s hiss, making it sound as dramatic as the fit itself.
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You can still hear 'hissy fit' in conversation these days, but I've never used it. Never liked the word 'hissy'. Don't even like typing it. 
